Last night I was flipping through a business magazine when I noticed an ad by Philips Electronics. The full page ad shows the picture of a very happy baby with a big smile on his face, laying on his back. But it wasn't the happy baby that caught my attention, it was the headline underneath:
Things start uncomplicated. Why change them?
Think about that. When you were born, you were uncomplicated. In one way, you were a clean slate, waiting to be imprinted by society and culture and norms, but in another way, you already had your "DNA of Greatness" coded within you.
And then what happened?
You were taught by your parents, reigned in by your teachers and influenced by the "anonymous they" - you know these people - you refer to the "anonymous they" when you say things like:
I couldn't do that - what would "they" think?
Everyone knows that's the way it should be.
Well, you know, "they" say it takes (insert your favorite saying here).
And so on.
This conditioning has a way of making things more difficult than they need to be. When things are complicated, we give ourselves permission to get caught up in them. Not only is this a convenient distraction, but it keeps us in the Illusion of Struggle. It gives us something to identify with. We can relate to it because we've been there before.
What difficulties have you become comfortable with?