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September 30, 2005

Catch This

We've all heard that laughter and bad attitudes are contagious.  What about ideas? 

LightbulbDictionary.com defines an idea as:

Something, such as a thought or conception, that potentially or actually exists in the mind as a product of mental activity.

An opinion, conviction, or principle.

A plan, scheme, or method.

The gist of a specific situation; significance.

A notion; a fancy.

Aren't beliefs, assumptions, and fears forms of ideas?  Have you ever had one of those days when everything went wrong from the minute you got up until you went to bed?  Like you were caught up in a domino effect?  Consider this:

Scarcity is contagious.

In fact, scarcity is a social epidemic.

In the first chapter of my upcoming book, Coaching Into Greatness: 4 Steps to Success In Business & Life, I write that "scarcity is the currency of our times."  We don't have to look far to see the negativity that infiltrates our culture, our tv's, our schools, our government.  We see all kinds of people living in scarcity.  I'm not just talking about poverty.  I'm really talking about people resisting who they are--living lives of mediocrity and drudgery and complacency.  Getting by.  Punching the timecard.  Paying their dues.

And yet, there is an opposite and equal reaction out there and inside each one of us.  The ability to be abundant, to be who we are, to live into our greatness, AS WE ARE.

Which version of the idea virus do you have?  Scarcity or Abundance?

The Tipping Point

Thanks to everyone who joined me for a fascinating discussion on The Tipping Point as related to the Living Into Greatness work last night.  If you missed it, please join us for our new LIG R&D series in the weeks ahead.  Class details will be posted here on the blog.

What is The Tipping Point?

BoilingwaterIn Malcolm Gladwell's book, The Tipping Point:  How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference, Gladwell argues that ideas and behaviors act like outbreaks of infectious disease, creating social epidemics.  The Tipping Point is the moment in an epidemic when critical mass is reached, the Boiling Point, "the straw that broke the camel's back".  When we begin to examine the social epidemics around us, we can see that little changes can make a big difference.

Wikipedia describes The Tipping Point as the dramatic moment when something unique becomes common.

How is The Tipping Point related to Living Into Greatness?

The pattern language I've created for scarcity shows that conditioned beliefs make up conditioned patterns which in turn make up the Illusion (which is the evidence of scarcity mentality).  Make sense?

In and of themselves, each of the conditioned patterns are not bad things.  For instance, the first conditioned pattern for the Illusion of Not Enough is MORE.  More is all about the need for more of something to complete you.  "I need more information before I can make a decision."  A desire to learn and educate yourself is not necessarily bad.  We can say, however, that when a need to learn more and more keeps you from doing what you already know, then it becomes a problem. 

The point at which a conditioned pattern keeps you from doing what you can do is The Tipping Point. 

Think of a teeter totter.  It's a great visual for the delicate balance between a scarcity mindset and an abundant mindset.  When our scarcity mentality becomes common, turning into evidence of the conditioned patterns in our lives, then the higher our Scarcity Quotient (SQ) tends to be.  When our abundance mentality becomes common, turning into evidence of the conscious patterns in our lives, the higher our Abundance Quotient (AQ) will be.

What does your teeter totter look like?

September 26, 2005

Next R&D Call

The Abundance Quotient System

Thursday, September 29th at 7pm eastern

The Living Into Greatness R&D team has spent a lot of time identifying the pattern language of scarcity and abundance.  We've learned that conditioned patterns make up the illusions of scarcity mentality and conscious patterns make up the abundance aptitudes.  Now that we know how to recognize scarcity and abundance in our business and in our lives, how do we begin to measure or quantify their existence?  Join Kim as she explores for the first time how to determine the Tipping Point of scarcity, and discover the impact to your bottom line.

To register for this call, send an email here.

September 15, 2005

Abundance Rules 4

Some people have been calling this next story an "extreme example of looting".  I call it an extreme example of doing what you can do.  You go, boy!

Katrina_renegadebus Taking refuge in the Astrodome - NEWSCHANNEL 5
(Picture courtesy of Carlos Antonio Rios / Chronicle)
Thousands of refugees of Hurricane Katrina were transported to the Astrodome in Houston this week. In an extreme act of looting, one group actually stole a bus to escape ravaged areas in Louisiana.

About 100 people packed into the stolen bus. They were the first to enter the Houston Astrodome, but they weren't exactly welcomed.

The big yellow school bus wasn't expected or approved to pass through the stadium's gates. Randy Nathan, who was on the bus, said they were desperate to get out of town.

"If it werent for him right there," he said, "we'd still be in New Orleans underwater. He got the bus for us."

Eighteen-year-old Jabbor Gibson jumped aboard the bus as it sat abandoned on a street in New Orleans and took control.

"I just took the bus and drove all the way here...seven hours straight,' Gibson admitted. "I hadn't ever drove a bus."

The teen packed it full of complete strangers and drove to Houston. He beat thousands of evacuees slated to arrive there.

"It's better than being in New Orleans," said fellow passenger Albert McClaud, "we want to be somewhere where we're safe."

During a long and impatient delay, children popped their heads out of bus windows and mothers clutched their babies.

One 8-day-old infant spent the first days of his life surrounded by chaos. He's one of the many who are homeless and hungry.

Authorities eventually allowed the renegade passengers inside the dome. But the 18-year-old who ensured their safety could find himself in a world of trouble for stealing the school bus.

"I don't care if I get blamed for it ," Gibson said, "as long as I saved my people."
Sounds like Gibson could teach the bureaucrats a thing or two!  What a great example of being terrified and doing what needs to be done anyway!

Blessings

GumballsI was watching another outstanding edition of Anderson Cooper 360 on CNN this week when one feature story in particular struck me.  They interviewed a woman in Texas who had taken in 50, yes, that's fifty, evacuees from Louisiana into her small home.  With too many people, too little food, and her own health issues, the woman worried only about one thing - wanting to do more for the people in her care.  When asked about taking in so many people, she responded:

"It's a blessing.  It makes you think, where would I be?"

This tragedy has opened my eyes to so much that I take for granted:  having a comfortable bed to sleep in, air conditioning, the health and safety of my loved ones, the companionship of my animals, peace of mind. 

What are the everyday blessings you're missing in your life right now?

Abundance Rules 5

The Staying Power of a Simple Act of Abundance

This story is a powerful example of how an act of scarcity (forcing an elderly man to abandon his beloved pet) can be trumped by an act of abundance from two loving strangers. Be sure to read all the way down for a link to the video of Bill and Miss Kitty's touching reunion.  You'll be glad you did.

From the Best Friends website:

Katrina survivor reunited with rescued cat in Mississippi hospital room

(SLIDELL, LA) – September 10, 2005 – Volunteers from the animal rescue group Noah’s Wish and Slidell animal control officers reunited a 59-year-old Katrina survivor with his beloved cat “Miss Kitty” in a Mississippi hospital room yesterday.

Slidell resident Bill Harris was trapped in his home by rising floodwaters for three days. Harris stood on a chair in 5 feet of water with his beloved cat in one arm and a two-way radio in the other. For three days, Harris desperately called for help on the radio. When rescuers finally arrived, a distraught Harris, who suffers from chronic kidney failure and needed to be taken immediately to a hospital, was forced to leave the cat behind. An MSNBC crew covering the Katrina disaster learned of Harris’ ordeal and went to the animal rescue group Noah’s Wish for help. Noah’s Wish is working with Slidell Animal Control to rescue pets in the aftermath of Katrina. After several days of searching, a cat wearing a black collar and matching the description Harris gave was humanely trapped eight days after her owner had been evacuated.

Slidell animal control officer Horace Troullier and Donna Wackerbauer, a Noah's Wish volunteer from Canada drove over 70 miles from Slidell to Hattiesburg, Mississippi where Harris was admitted to Forest General Hospital on Monday. “I was holding Miss Kitty in my arms when I walked into Mr. Harris’ hospital room,” said Wackerbauer. “When she saw her owner, Miss Kitty jumped out of my arms, onto her owner and burrowed her head into him. It was like she was saying, “Yeah! I got my daddy back!’”

During the three-day ordeal, Harris said that Miss Kitty meowed to keep him awake as he began to drift in and out of consciousness.

“It was the most exciting rescue I have ever been a part of,” said Troullier “This is what it’s all about.” A 15-year veteran of Slidell Animal Control, Troullier’s house was completely flooded and he does not have insurance. The animal control officer has been working around the clock for two weeks straight.

Want to see the heartwarming video of Miss Kitty's reunion: 

http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/i/msnbc/Components/Blogs/Katrina/video/050911_katrina_cat_02.asf

September 14, 2005

Abundance Rules 3

You asked for 'em and I've got 'em!  More examples of Abundance in Action in the Gulf Coast.

Dog_noseI want to celebrate the courageous actions of Dr. James Riopelle, an anesthesiologist at Mercy/Lindy Boggs Hospital in New Orleans.  Here is his story, as featured on the Best Friends website:

Doctor makes heroic stand to save pets

Special to Best Friends

A New Orleans physician is making a defiant stand at a city hospital, refusing to evacuate until the animals with him are also evacuated, and defying orders to euthanize the pets.

Anesthesiologist James Riopelle went to his workplace, Mercy/Lindy Boggs Hospital in New Orleans, to ride out the storm with his wife, mother-in-law, and two elderly cats. He and the other employees were invited to take their pets with them to the hospital.

But when the area around the hospital flooded – and there proved to be no “riding out” Hurricane Katrina – the hospital made arrangements to evacuate all of the staff and patients, but refused to let them take their pets along.

“It was a real ‘Sophie’s Choice,’” Riopelle’s wife, New Orleans dentist Jamie Manders, says of the demand that people leave their pets behind. “People were crying hysterically, hugging one another, it was horrible.”

An Associated Press story also recounts the anguish of the people who had to leave their pets, describing a liver transplant recipient who was forced to choose between the drugs he needed to stay alive, and his dogs.

Manders was one of the first to evacuate the hospital, because she was with her 83-year-old mother, who is crippled and has Alzheimers’ disease. She was distressed about leaving her husband when she departed Wednesday night, but she had no idea that he would be left alone in the hospital for several more days.

Riopelle originally stayed back because he was charged with euthanizing the 50 to 100 animals that had been taken to the hospital by staff and patients.

He refused. He was told to leave the animals and evacuate the hospital. He refused that order, too.

“If you knew James, it is so like him to do something like this,” says Manders. “I’ve been with this man for 26 years and he is always doing things that seem crazy, and he always comes out smelling like a rose.”

She says her husband has always been devoted to animals, and willing to make a stand on their behalf.

Previously, the physician/professor had raised the ire of his academic colleagues when he told the media about a study one colleague was doing that involved shooting cats in the head to study head trauma. When the media reports got out, the funding for the research was yanked.

“Fifteen years ago, he made a decision that he would never harm another animal as long as he lived, and he has been a total vegan since then,” his wife says. “He is soft-spoken and non-confrontational, but that man has conviction like I’ve never seen.”

Riopelle has been calling Manders for about a minute each night since Wednesday, on a cell phone with a dying battery. She has gotten general information about his condition but few details, such as the exact number of animals who are with him.

She knows that he is by himself in a hospital that has been flooded and looted, without electricity or running water, caring for dozens of animals – and in the company of 100 dead bodies.

“It was already bad when I left Wednesday night. It has gotten a lot worse since then,” she says.

She also knows that Riopelle has gotten some help over the last couple of days. The company that manages the hospital delivered some food and water for him – but refused to bring any for the animals. Then, on Sunday, the sheriff of Jefferson Parish made a drop of dog and cat food onto the roof of the hospital.

Since her husband began his vigil, Manders has contacted anybody and everybody she could to try to get the story out. She e-mailed everybody she could think of, and has been in contact with major media outlets about the story.

Eventually, her efforts caught the attention of the company that manages the hospital, and Sunday, it was making arrangements to have the animals evacuated.

Late Sunday night, she heard from her husband again. He had crated all of the animals and carried them down five flights of stairs from the roof, to meet a helicopter that had been sent to get him. As the helicopter arrived, its engine blew up. Although no one was hurt, that was the end of the rescue attempt.

And so, Dr. Riopelle continues to wait. . .

But this is a story with a happy ending.  Dr. Riopelle was rescued by actor Matthew McConnaughey. On Sept. 7th, he was rescued along with 43 dogs, 17 cats and two gerbils.

Amazing, isn't it?  Talk about living into your greatness!  What a terrific example of abundance.

This man inspires me to live more authentically every day.  How has he inspired you?

September 12, 2005

Next R&D Call

LIG Open Mic

Thursday, September 15th, 7pm eastern

Are you stuck?  Can't seem to make a decision about something?  Facing a challenge and don't know what to do next? 

Bring your challenge or "personal quicksand" as Kim calls it, to the call this week.  Kim will be walking people through the 4 step Living Into Greatness process, showing people how to identify their Scarcity Quotient and conditioned patterns and get unstuck.  Get some live coaching, or just join the call and see how it's done!

To register, send an email here.

September 11, 2005

Abundance Rules 2

I mentioned in an earlier post that I would be sharing stories of abundance coming out of the Katrina disaster.  Here's the first one:

A small group of women from Massachusetts have banded together to quickly form Project Starfish, as a coordination point for securing foster homes and resources for the displaced pets of Katrina.  In their own words, they are "just a handful of regular people living in New England who were horrified by the news coming out of the afflicted region."

In less than 2 weeks, these three women have brought together resources and hope for the animal victims, and their owners, of Katrina.  They are currently down in Louisiana.

Project_starfishHere is one of the ladies, with 2 rescued puppies.

I celebrate these women for acting abundantly, living greatly, and most importantly, doing what they can do.  They have challenged me to do more.

What can you do that you haven't done yet?

4 Steps to Success

In our last r&d call, I spent the majority of the class running through the Living Into Greatness 4 step process for moving from scarcity to abundance.  Here's a summary of what was discussed:

Flower_unfoldingStep One:  Awareness  See It

Awareness is all about remembering who you are.  Throughout our lives, we are conditioned by external sources (society, parents, culture, norms) to hold certain beliefs, perceptions, and views of the world and ourselves in the world.  This conditioning is like the magic shell on an ice cream cone or a suit of armor.  Awareness gives us the opportunity to make a crack or a small chink in that armor so that the light of truth can break through.  Awareness is the beginning of everything.  Creating Awareness in the LIG process is combination of isolating and examining the fears, illusions, beliefs and assumptions of a situation.

Flower_unfolding Step Two:  Acceptance  Own It

If Awareness is about remembering who you are, Acceptance is about owning it.  Once we have a breakthrough of insight or realization, we have to own up to its relevance in our lives right now.  We have to own up to how it is helping or hindering our efforts to be who we are.  The second part of Acceptance is making a commitment.  Once we recognize something to be true for us, we must commit to making a change.  In the LIG process, we commit to moving from the illusion (the source of scarcity thinking) to the Abundance Aptitude (the source of abundance thinking).  Making a commitment grounds us and our actions to who we are.

Flower_unfoldingStep Three:  Consistent Action  Live It

This step is about living who you are.  The theme of this book is living into your greatness.  It is all about action.  It is not enough to know something.  We must integrate what we know into our lives.  Consistent Action is about applying conscious choices to everyday life.  It is not acting just once, it is acting consistently - over and over again until we move from conditioned patterns (evidence of scarcity) to conscious patterns (evidence of abundance).  In this way we live into who we are and live into our greatness.

Flower_unfoldingStep Four:  Authenticity  Be It

Authenticity is showing up as your true self even when it is difficult, scary, uncertain or unpopular.  It is being in alignment with your greatness, your vision and your values. Authenticity is about being yourself in a world that is trying so hard every day to make you conform.  I place Authenticy after the other steps for the simple reason that if it came before, you would be authentic to your conditioned patterns and illusions, and not to who you truly are.  The LIG process is about identifying and working through all those layers of conditioning, excavating your DNA of Greatness. 

September 06, 2005

Next R&D Call

LIG Open Mic

Thursday, September 8th, 7pm eastern

Join Kim for a different kind of Living Into Greatness r&d event - "Open Mic night".  We're going to mix things up a bit and try something new.  Are you stuck?  Can't seem to make a decision about something?  Facing a challenge and don't know what to do next? 

Bring your challenge or "personal quicksand" as Kim calls it, to the call this week.  Kim will be walking people through the 4 step Living Into Greatness process, showing people how to identify their Scarcity Quotient and conditioned patterns and get unstuck.  Get some live coaching, or just join the call and see how it's done!

To register, send an email here.

Abundance Rules

My heart goes out to everyone impacted by Hurricane Katrina, in particular, my two cousins, Shannon and Tara and their families.  Both from New Orleans, they have lost everything, but got out safely before the hurricane hit. 

They were the lucky ones.

Bourbon_streetAnd so are the rest of us, lucky ones--watching the tragic events unfold day after day.  I was just in New Orleans in May and have such fond memories -- it was one of the best times of my life.  I'm so thankful I got a chance to experience it before all this

And now it is all underwater.

But this country will rebuild.  Mississippi and Alabama will rebuild.  New Orleans will rebuild.  And be greater than ever before.

Because the true spirit of people is abundance and we are seeing this in countless amazing acts of kindness and compassion.  I will be celebrating these acts of abundance in the days and weeks ahead.  Feel free to check in here when you need to feel good about something going on in the Gulf Coast.

Abundance rules.

Silent Tragedy

Just like the rest of the world, I have been grief stricken by the devastation continuing to unfold in New Orleans and other parts of the Gulf Coast.  All eyes are on the human toll that is being exacted, but there is another equally disturbing story to be told.  Thousands of pets are left stranded in flooded houses, on rooftops, on porches and on top of cars.  Many people were not allowed to take their pets with them on rescue boats and helicopters, on buses and into shelters. 

This is appalling!

These people have lost everything.  Everything.  There are many stories of people wading through toxic water up to their chest to get to shelters and rescuers, only to be told they cannot take their pets with them.  Can you imagine leaving your pet behind to fend for itself, to starve and suffer the miserable death of dehydration?

I cannot.

Many people might read this and think I'm off my rocker.  People come first, right?  Here's my take on this deplorable situation:  To be abundant is to celebrate and revere ALL life.

This is scarcity in the truest sense.  This entire tragedy could have been prevented if politicians and city planners would have acted abundantly and rebuilt the levees to survive this kind of threat.  They knew this was coming.  They didn't want to invest the $14 billion it would take to do the job right.  Instead, they acted from a scarcity mentality, which leaves us in the situation we are in right now.

Scarcity is all around us.  But so is abundance.  In the days ahead, I'm going to share stories of people acting abundantly in the face of this tragedy - people doing what they can, RIGHT NOW to help their fellow man (and animals).  They are the true heros.

I urge you to support the critical work being done by too few in the Gulf Coast on behalf of animals; here are some rescue organizations that desperately need your help:

Humane Society www.hsus.org

Noah's Wish  www.noahswish.org

Best Friends Sanctuary www.bestfriends.org

American Society for the Protection of Cruelty to Animals www.aspca.org

For tonight, I leave you with one of my favorite stories: 

A man died and found himself walking along a dusty road. He wasn't alone, though. He was delighted when he realized that his favorite dog was trotting along beside him.

After a while, tired and thirsty, the pair came to an ornate gate, gilded with gold and precious gems. A neon sign proclaimed it to be heaven.

"Come on in and have a nice cold drink," the gatekeeper told the man.

"What about my dog?" the man asked.

"Sorry, he can't come in," the gatekeeper replied.

The man shook his head, whistled to his dog and the pair kept walking, getting thirstier by the minute.

Soon they came to another gate, this one not nearly so ornate. There was no polished gold, no sparkle of rubies and emeralds like the other one had, but inside, the man could see beautiful rolling fields of grass and flowers. Again, there was a gatekeeper who motioned him forward.

"Come on in and take a load off," the gatekeeper said. "We've got all the cool water you can drink."

"What about my dog?" the man asked.

"Oh, there should be a bowl right there beside the pump," the gatekeeper replied. "And when you two finish drinking, we'll get you both something to eat, too."

"What is this place?" the man asked.

"Why, this is heaven," the gatekeeper replied.

Shaking his head, the man asked if the gatekeeper didn't get mad about the gilded palace down the road claiming to be heaven.

"Nah," the angel replied. "They just help us to weed out those who would leave their best friends behind."

God bless all living things, two legged and four legged, in the Gulf Coast.